I'm 25F, and over the last 3-4 years, I've cut back a ton on impulsive purchases, upcycled my clothes, and given away most of my old ones as responsibly as I could. I definitely had a little bit of a problem - buying into trends and microtrends, filling up my wardrobe with A LOT of extremely cheap clothes I barely wore. I'm reflecting, and I think I really lost it somewhere around the pandemic and realized I was just trying to buy into an identity. If that makes sense? I feel like it is acceptable at around 20 to explore a little and find your style, but in hindsight, it was quite a big problem.
A lot of friends my age seem to have the same problem. How do I talk to them about this cycle they're stuck in without sounding overly preachy?
I'd love to know what was the last straw that made you cut back on impulsive clothing purchases. More perspectives can perhaps help me articulate/approach this better. Thanks!
Submitted February 19, 2026 at 12:48AM by Similar_Paper7765 https://ift.tt/IWXfRcY